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		<title>By: Ann Duckworth</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-10888</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann Duckworth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 01:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Learning Theory shows how our treatment of Males from the nineteenth century belief Males should be strong has created many obstacles: from more aggression allowed; less ease and comfort along with less mental/emotional/social/academic support (for fear of coddling, again to make them tough); and also by design to make Males tough only providing love, honor, and respect, conditional on achievement, power, or status.  As to why African Males are falling behind in greater numbers: the lower the socioeconomic bracket the more aggressions are allowed upon Males.  Also, there are usually much less accumulated other mental, emotional, social, and academic tools present to help in more positive ways. Also more time in generations create another layer of shortage in those areas.  If other races: Caucasian, Hispanic or other were in the same position in the same numbers, the problem would be just as great for those groups.

Since girls are not required to be strong, it is okay to provide good stabilizing treatment, more ease, more comfort, more mental/emotional/social/academic support. This is why girls appear to mature faster than boys.  Also, there is the idea from the nineteenth century that girls should be protected.  This continues on for girls from birth onward. Also, since girls are not required to be tough, girls can and are given more respect simply for being girls.  All of those areas create virtually everything they need to grow up mentally fit to compete in the information age.

1.  I fear followers of the genetic models will try to build a case for genetic learning differences or body mass requiring more activity or tactile learning.  Note that nice middle class Males do not have this problem.  Also the view of differences in brain activity are more due to large differences in differential mental, emotional, social, physical, and educational reinforcement over time, not organic differences. 
          2.  I also fear the use of Male classrooms with more discipline and</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning Theory shows how our treatment of Males from the nineteenth century belief Males should be strong has created many obstacles: from more aggression allowed; less ease and comfort along with less mental/emotional/social/academic support (for fear of coddling, again to make them tough); and also by design to make Males tough only providing love, honor, and respect, conditional on achievement, power, or status.  As to why African Males are falling behind in greater numbers: the lower the socioeconomic bracket the more aggressions are allowed upon Males.  Also, there are usually much less accumulated other mental, emotional, social, and academic tools present to help in more positive ways. Also more time in generations create another layer of shortage in those areas.  If other races: Caucasian, Hispanic or other were in the same position in the same numbers, the problem would be just as great for those groups.</p>
<p>Since girls are not required to be strong, it is okay to provide good stabilizing treatment, more ease, more comfort, more mental/emotional/social/academic support. This is why girls appear to mature faster than boys.  Also, there is the idea from the nineteenth century that girls should be protected.  This continues on for girls from birth onward. Also, since girls are not required to be tough, girls can and are given more respect simply for being girls.  All of those areas create virtually everything they need to grow up mentally fit to compete in the information age.</p>
<p>1.  I fear followers of the genetic models will try to build a case for genetic learning differences or body mass requiring more activity or tactile learning.  Note that nice middle class Males do not have this problem.  Also the view of differences in brain activity are more due to large differences in differential mental, emotional, social, physical, and educational reinforcement over time, not organic differences.<br />
          2.  I also fear the use of Male classrooms with more discipline and</p>
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		<title>By: gemma</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-10872</link>
		<dc:creator>gemma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can you provide more information on this? i have read other websites that are on similar subjects.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can you provide more information on this? i have read other websites that are on similar subjects.</p>
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		<title>By: Teebs</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-10283</link>
		<dc:creator>Teebs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 15:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Womyn: you lack logic, accountability and not mention compassion for half of the human race.   
 
The insane hatred directed against boys and men and the persecutions in divorce court and general hatred driven against men is everywhere.

Feminism = Hatred.

University = Feminism Church

Womyn hate all that is male.

See destruction of boys.
See womyn-teacher boy rape and light legal charges 
See divorce court destruction of men and children


Solution = Avoid North American Bitches</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Womyn: you lack logic, accountability and not mention compassion for half of the human race.   </p>
<p>The insane hatred directed against boys and men and the persecutions in divorce court and general hatred driven against men is everywhere.</p>
<p>Feminism = Hatred.</p>
<p>University = Feminism Church</p>
<p>Womyn hate all that is male.</p>
<p>See destruction of boys.<br />
See womyn-teacher boy rape and light legal charges<br />
See divorce court destruction of men and children</p>
<p>Solution = Avoid North American Bitches</p>
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		<title>By: Penis</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-822</link>
		<dc:creator>Penis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 18:11:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Walter</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-784</link>
		<dc:creator>Walter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 07:42:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting enough, I just blogged about comments and moderation here at IT Toolbox. I was reading a comment and this post came up (based on topic) from more than a year ago.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting enough, I just blogged about comments and moderation here at IT Toolbox. I was reading a comment and this post came up (based on topic) from more than a year ago.</p>
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		<title>By: Internet Online Dating For Singles</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-781</link>
		<dc:creator>Internet Online Dating For Singles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 14:43:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whatz up, I fell lucky that I located this post while browsing for internet online dating for singles. I am with you on the topic of Free to Be&#8230;A Vampire?. Ironically, I was just putting a lot of thought into this last Saturday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatz up, I fell lucky that I located this post while browsing for internet online dating for singles. I am with you on the topic of Free to Be&#8230;A Vampire?. Ironically, I was just putting a lot of thought into this last Saturday.</p>
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		<title>By: Free Singles Dating</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-349</link>
		<dc:creator>Free Singles Dating</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 11:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whatz Expert, I fell blessed that I found your post while searching for free singles dating. I agree with you on the subject Free to Be&#8230;A Vampire?. I was just thinking about this matter last Wednesday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatz Expert, I fell blessed that I found your post while searching for free singles dating. I agree with you on the subject Free to Be&#8230;A Vampire?. I was just thinking about this matter last Wednesday.</p>
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		<title>By: Tyler Williams</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-347</link>
		<dc:creator>Tyler Williams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 10:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm, I\'m not sure if I agree with you fully</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm, I\&#8217;m not sure if I agree with you fully</p>
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		<title>By: Niko</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-321</link>
		<dc:creator>Niko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 00:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ditto with EvilDave, there is definitely a divide, the number of spinsters and bachelors seem to attest to the fact. 

The absence of the dynamic of cohesive relationships and the lack of what  women deem a 'suitable mate' could be leading to the fantasizing and idealization of traditional male figures. Who would want a male nanny when they can have Tarzan.........</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ditto with EvilDave, there is definitely a divide, the number of spinsters and bachelors seem to attest to the fact. </p>
<p>The absence of the dynamic of cohesive relationships and the lack of what  women deem a &#8217;suitable mate&#8217; could be leading to the fantasizing and idealization of traditional male figures. Who would want a male nanny when they can have Tarzan&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: EvilDave</title>
		<link>http://www.whyboysfail.com/2008/08/18/free-to-bea-vampire/#comment-320</link>
		<dc:creator>EvilDave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 21:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1) I don't think feminism has invested more in traditional gender roles.
Which from that snippet isn't entirely what I think the author is saying.

2) I do think it has created a gender divide.
Feminism comes out of the Baby Boomers' culture of Hate.  To the 60s radical and their ideological decedents, hatred is a virtue.
Hatred of men is key to feminism (Look at the biographies of those that started modern feminism; those where angry people).  "Boys are stupid"  "sperm donors with wallets" culture runs rampant in modern female thinking.  Male-bashing is not just A-OK it is culturally expected.  Whenever you get more than 3-4 women the PC anti-male hate is sure to come out.

So, how what does this cause?
The men retreat as much as possible.  They fear dating &#38; marriage but are biologically compelled to at least date.
They break apart socially and politically.  Men resent women as more and more money is diverted to female causes and none to men.  
Women grow to hate men but simultaneously feel that men owe them.  


So, feminism is not re-enforcing traditional gender roles.  But it does make the genders want to have as little to do with each other as possible.  Hence the divide.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) I don&#8217;t think feminism has invested more in traditional gender roles.<br />
Which from that snippet isn&#8217;t entirely what I think the author is saying.</p>
<p>2) I do think it has created a gender divide.<br />
Feminism comes out of the Baby Boomers&#8217; culture of Hate.  To the 60s radical and their ideological decedents, hatred is a virtue.<br />
Hatred of men is key to feminism (Look at the biographies of those that started modern feminism; those where angry people).  &#8220;Boys are stupid&#8221;  &#8220;sperm donors with wallets&#8221; culture runs rampant in modern female thinking.  Male-bashing is not just A-OK it is culturally expected.  Whenever you get more than 3-4 women the PC anti-male hate is sure to come out.</p>
<p>So, how what does this cause?<br />
The men retreat as much as possible.  They fear dating &amp; marriage but are biologically compelled to at least date.<br />
They break apart socially and politically.  Men resent women as more and more money is diverted to female causes and none to men.<br />
Women grow to hate men but simultaneously feel that men owe them.  </p>
<p>So, feminism is not re-enforcing traditional gender roles.  But it does make the genders want to have as little to do with each other as possible.  Hence the divide.</p>
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